Tag: marriage

HELP! I'M DATING A PASTOR

  Realities pastors’ girlfriends face and how to handle them   Shortly after this photo (above) was taken six years ago, I began a romantic relationship with the handsome young man on my left who is now my husband. It’s been a walk in the park, no hassles, no challenges, just a fairy tale romance, because after all, he is…

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How to Choose a Life Partner

  There are quite a number of things I know how to do pretty well. Sadly, dancing is not one of them. I can’t dance to save my life. People say I danced well on my wedding day, but that must have been a combination of joy at marrying the man of my dreams, their goodwill towards the bride, and…

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Until the wedding night…

  Nine steps to handling sexual temptation in courtship Let’s be real. If you’re dating someone, you’re probably attracted to them. If you’re not, I don’t know whether to congratulate you. God put sexual urges in your body for a reason. He wants you to enjoy sex in marriage. I know what it is like to face temptation daily in…

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Don’t marry him if…

Insightful tips to save you from a marriage with regrets By Laju Iren Everybody will tell you that husbands are scarce. So if someone wants to marry you? Ha! You have to do everything possible to keep that man. But do you know what the bible says, that a good wife, a virtuous woman is hard to find. Dear sister,…

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We're dating, now what?

…Godly Tips to Purposeful Courtship   Dear young man in love. You can take a deep breath. You are here now. The girl of your dreams is now exclusively yours. She said yes!  You feel like you’re walking on the moon. No more checking your phone every few seconds to see if she replied your message. She now texts you…

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Twelve Things To Do Before You Say 'I do'

So you’re getting married? Twelve things to do before you say ‘I do’ Congratulations! You’re getting married.The butterflies in your tummy have an absolute right to be there; you’re taking one of the most important and exciting steps in your life. There’s a lot that comes with planning a wedding, and even much more that comes with planning a marriage.…

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