I've been led to a guy who will be my husband, Should I keep waiting for him?

For the past two years, I feel like I’ve been led to a guy who will be my husband. I know the guy but he doesn’t know me as such. Even when we meet at church programmes, he doesn’t notice me. What should I do? Should I keep waiting for him and keep on praying or what ma?

My dear, I want to be very frank with you. God will not choose for you, but with you. Start with being friends with this guy, but I don’t think you should go farther than that.

What if you meet the guy and he doesn’t really have the qualities you desire in a husband, will you still keep on insisting that God chose him for you? What if he doesn’t like you in that way? You can’t force him.

Please keep an open mind so that you don’t block your website. Lol.

Know the qualities you desire in a spouse and prayerfully make your choice. It might be that guy, it might not Be. But please, keep an open mind.

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  1. Demilade November 9, 2016 at 6:23 am

    Lool @ website blocking. Hmmm. God will choose with me… It’s well

  2. harriet November 9, 2016 at 10:44 am

    ok..so am really close to a guy who i care about so much,puts others out cuz of him. my loving him seems miracolous cuz i neva tot i wuld fall for him at all, bt now i cant evn be happy for a day if we dont talk. he is everytin spiritual,and mental that i nid in my life. he says he loves me,am special,he loves spending time with me, he prays for me eehn, he is concern abt my life,spritually,physically,financially… which really endears him to me. but he is nt making any move to introduce me to his family or evn come to see mine. everybody in church suspects we are dating bt he hasnt tld anyone dat we are. i dont tink he is ashamed of me. we av knwn each other for 2 years bt we av gotten really close for abt 6 months now.av tried talking to him about it and he keeps assuring me dat he will introduce us soon, though he has some work stuff he is putting his time to as well. my question is ” do you tink he will really define the relationship/frndship? or am i jst rushing things, which i feel i am? i trully adore him for everything he is in Christ and for what he has done for me spiritually and emotionally.

  3. Bimpe November 11, 2016 at 2:14 pm

    This is so funny! But gosh, how true.


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