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I don't believe in marriage

I love God but I don’t believe in marriage. Yes I’ve had certain experiences at home that may I’ve shaped it but I feel like I’m called to a life of celibacy. Is that okay?   There are two things here. One is you believing that you have been called to a life of celibacy and the second is not…

Tech goes pink as gender issues add colour to Social Media week

ALMOST nothing brings together a large number of vastly different interests and skill sets like technology. Little wonder then that the recently held Social media week in Lagos was as versatile an event as one can imagine. Politics had its day in the cloud as Governor of Kaduna State, Nasir El Rufai praised social media for its impact on governance.…

Dear Laju, I lost my virginity

Dear Laju, I lost my virginity at a young age but I’m a Christian now. But I still feel like no good man will ever love me.     There is no need to feel like no one will ever love you. I know of good guys, great guys- who have married ladies who weren’t virgins. Salmon, married Rahab the…

Making Relationships Work

Many people are intentional about choosing the right partner. That’s a good thing and if you need help with that, you can read my post ‘How to choose a life partner.’ However, after getting the person of your dreams, there is much more work to do to keep you guys together. 1. No two relationships are the same If your…

How to Choose a Life Partner

  There are quite a number of things I know how to do pretty well. Sadly, dancing is not one of them. I can’t dance to save my life. People say I danced well on my wedding day, but that must have been a combination of joy at marrying the man of my dreams, their goodwill towards the bride, and…