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How to Choose the Wrong Spouse

by Laju Iren I don’t always show it, but I get a little worried when I counsel some young people about their relationships. Sometimes I just feel like asking them the hubby’s famous words: ‘Why are you so bent on ruining your life?’ That’s why I’ve written this article. I’m hoping that you’d see more clearly what a bad relationship…

HE PUT A RING ON IT…9 THINGS TO DO NEXT!  

By Grace Samuel Whoop! Whoop!! So le Boo finally went on one knee (or not) and you said “yes!” You must feel on cloud 9 or maybe cloud 1 because the ring wasn’t as awesome as those you’ve been fantasizing with on Instagram. But the deal is, you said yes to the man you want to spend the rest of…

So, you're pregnant?

Positive! There’s almost nothing as heart warming as seeing two lines on your pregnancy kit. Especially if you’ve been praying and waiting. Congratulations! Your life is about to change. This article is to help you in this new phase of your life. 1. All pregnancies are different Some ladies make pregnancy look like a runway show. They don’t give up…

30 things I’ve learnt in my one year of being a mum

  Push! I remember it like it was yesterday. After hoping she would arrive at 38 weeks, and just plain tired of being pregnant, the little princess decided to arrive at exactly 40 weeks. I had been experiencing contractions the night before, but now, things were beginning to get real-painfully real. No one can explain the pain of labour to…

HELP! I'M DATING A PASTOR

  Realities pastors’ girlfriends face and how to handle them   Shortly after this photo (above) was taken six years ago, I began a romantic relationship with the handsome young man on my left who is now my husband. It’s been a walk in the park, no hassles, no challenges, just a fairy tale romance, because after all, he is…

Love versus ‘God said’

Who chooses your spouse? You or God?   BY LAJU IREN I remember watching a Mount Zion film a few years back. The main character, a Christian sister, had a dream where she was to choose between two suitors. One was ‘supposedly’ handsome and the other wasn’t. I used the term ‘supposedly’ with a mischievous smile on my face, but…

When you don't 'feel' God

Dear Laju, I know I love God but I never feel his presence, hear him and I have never had any supernatural experience.  What do I do? I guess you could say that I don’t always feel married. One of the things I do when I get into the house is take off my wedding ring (I’ve never forgotten to…