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Four lessons in my fourth year of marriage

By Laju Iren   Every anniversary, I write a post about the lessons I’ve learned in the number of years I’ve been married. This year, I’ll limit it to the number of lessons I’ve learned specifically in this fourth year. I’m doing this for a number of reasons, chief being that I’m now a mother of two whole kids under…

Sex: After court or church wedding?

  I know it’s #Dauntless #SelfiesWithBibleGirls season. But I’m still a #relationshipblogger so I feel the need to make clearer what should be done as regards this ongoing debate. Interestingly, I had answered this in another book I’m working on, so I practically copied and pasted from the draft. Que: We have done the court wedding, he is of the…

Anniversary Special

Hi, I wanted to make it very easy for you to be a part of our anniversary celebration, since you can’t be with us. So i thought, what better way than a blog post with all the information you need? I made a video and a blog post on how to still accomplish your new year resolutions, by all means…

Courses

Hey there! Thank you for your interest in taking my writing courses.  Course Details: Speak Like A Pro, Write Like A Genius Have hopes of being a better public speaker? There’s no better person to learn from than Bella. For several years, through City 105.1 FM she reached millions of Nigerians. Entertaining and educating. If you’re ready to speak like…

HOW TO STILL ACHIEVE YOUR NEW YEAR RESOLUTIONS

Ginger! When we began the year 2019, everyone had it in abundance. And no, I don’t mean the hot, fragrant spice made from the rhizome of a plant, which may be chopped or powdered for cooking… I mean that toe-tingling, heart-pumping, the-hour-has-come, I’ve-got-all-the-motivation-I-need feeling that falls upon you once the clock chimes 12:00 on New Year’s Eve. That’s the ginger…

How I’m celebrating my 5th wedding anniversary!

God is so good! On November 1st, I’d be married for five years to the absolute Love of My Life, Finest Boy Ever Liveth, Husbandman that Laboureth, First partaker, My extremely personal Pastor Iren, Pst. Emmanuel Iren of life and destiny. I actually got carried away, this post isn’t about my hubby or the lessons I’ve learned this five years,…

TIMES AND SEASONS

(FREE CHAPTER FROM LAJU IREN’S NEW BOOK, MIRROR, MIRROR) The Chinese bamboo is an interesting tree. While most trees grow steadily over a period of time, it doesn’t break through the ground in the first year. If you go to the ground where it is planted, you may barely notice anything above the surface, but you would be wrong to…

Overcoming lustful thoughts

  By Laju Iren   There was a time in my life when I saw almost every handsome guy as naked in my mind’s eye. Pretty embarrassing right? It even seems funny now, but it was not at that time. Lustful thoughts followed me everywhere. Even though I was a believer, I seemed to be losing the battle for my…

Pre-Order Two-in-One book, Loving Amanda+Finding Miriam

Thank you for your interest in pre-ordering my two-in-one book, Loving Amanda and Finding Miriam. The two-in-one book costs N2, 500 but you can pre-order it at N2,100. Your pre-order would be confirmed only after payment has been made. We currently have pick up points at the following locations where you can get your book from February 12th: Ikeja Festac…

Finding Miriam (Free Chapter)

Chapter One Miriam hated this place. When Goch asked her how good her Hausa was, she thought he just needed a brief translation, she had no idea that this was what he had in mind. The blazing hot sun seeped through her cotton blouse, heightening her irritation even more. “Oga, I thought you said your a/c was working.” He muttered…