Marriage

HELP! I'M DATING A PASTOR

  Realities pastors’ girlfriends face and how to handle them   Shortly after this photo (above) was taken six years ago, I began a romantic relationship with the handsome young man on my left who is now my husband. It’s been a walk in the park, no hassles, no challenges, just a fairy tale romance, because after all, he is…

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Love versus ‘God said’

Who chooses your spouse? You or God?   BY LAJU IREN I remember watching a Mount Zion film a few years back. The main character, a Christian sister, had a dream where she was to choose between two suitors. One was ‘supposedly’ handsome and the other wasn’t. I used the term ‘supposedly’ with a mischievous smile on my face, but…

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Making Relationships Work

Many people are intentional about choosing the right partner. That’s a good thing and if you need help with that, you can read my post ‘How to choose a life partner.’ However, after getting the person of your dreams, there is much more work to do to keep you guys together. 1. No two relationships are the same If your…

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How to Choose a Life Partner

  There are quite a number of things I know how to do pretty well. Sadly, dancing is not one of them. I can’t dance to save my life. People say I danced well on my wedding day, but that must have been a combination of joy at marrying the man of my dreams, their goodwill towards the bride, and…

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Staying Faithful

  Not all men cheat. And not all women will leave their beloved for a richer man. Ideas like this are perpetuated largely by people who choose to be unfaithful and say it is normal thing to justify themselves. This post is not for such people; if you need a blog post to convince you to stay faithful, then it’ll…

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